mind, body & soul

Perşembe, Mart 26, 2015

"I have always believed that in order to live a happy and full life, one must connect the mind, body and soul which is why I am so passionate about living a healthy lifestyle."


Çarşamba, Mart 25, 2015

Bugün sana 21, babama tam da senin doğum gününde 6 ay olacak veda edeli.
İkinize de çok erken veda ettik. Böyle olmamalıydı.
Rahat uyuyun, nurlarda uyuyun, huzur içinde uyuyun.


Pazartesi, Mart 23, 2015

“Selectively Social”

1. You are very frank and loud at home or when you are with your friends but you turn into a timid shy ball when you are with people you hardly know.

2. You are the entertainer in your friends circle but you hate it when your friends expect you to entertain in front of a crowd of strangers.

3. You are very close to just one or two friends among your friends circle. With the rest of the friends in your circle, you are comfortable being you but you are not too close. 

4. There’s an uncertainty when you agree to keep in touch with people. There are days when you want to talk to people yet there are days when you don’t want to talk to anyone.

5. When your friends ask you to join them for an outing, the first thing you ask is; “Who all are going?” and the answer is always, always a BIG influence on your decision.

6. You try your best to avoid having a conversation with people and hence, you stay away as far as you can from your next door neighbor, class mates, colleagues and friends of friends.

7. You enjoy being alone rather than hanging out with a bunch of people… but you become one of them if you join.

8. You hate it when people comment on how boring you and your life are. When others plan for a freaking weekend partying, shopping and movies, all you look forward to is, a stay-at-home weekend, doing nothing much, but just relax, read a book, write articles and dance to the blaring music with your pajamas on. 

9. You cannot forgive yourself for inviting people to your home. Most of the time, you care the least about modesties but sometimes, “You can visit my place when you want to” slips off your mouth and all you do is, regret. Just regret. You will then think of every possible excuse to give when they say they are visiting you. 

10. You hate it when your girlfriend or boyfriend has an out-going personality and you always get tagged ‘my lifeless girlfriend/boyfriend’. And if you are a single like me, your dream partner is not somebody who gets annoyed when you make no plans for hangouts and movies but somebody who loves staying at home spending quality time with you.

11. You love being around people you are close with but most of the time you cherish solitude. It’s not that you never want to be with people but at the same time it’s not that you want to stay alone always. Nobody can or will ever understand your behavior just as you yourself cannot.

12. You can stay mysteriously unplugged for weeks on end. There are days you talk to people a lot and there are days when you don’t even respond to their text messages and calls. 

13. You fear getting close to people. Sometimes you get along with a person very well but there comes a point where you think you are getting close to that somebody and you disconnect immediately for a long time. Getting attached to people isn’t your cup of tea.

14. You fancy the idea of partying with people but you don’t want to go to parties even if all the friends in your circle are going. You hate to turn down an invitation because you don’t want to upset people but your solitude weighs more than that for you. 

15. There’s nothing more annoying than having an out-going person as your company. They can get on your nerves, talk to you about topics you least care and will persuade you to accompany them out on days you want to stay at home doing nothing. They will keep you waiting on the way while they talk to everyone they meet. Just because they smile and talk to everyone, you are seen crystal clear as ‘the contrast’.

16. To those people who don’t know you; you are and will remain that ‘grumpy, rude and anti-social person’ which in reality we aren’t.


Kayıplarımdan Öğrendiklerim

Perşembe, Mart 19, 2015

Kaybettiğim çok şey var benim. Ve bir o kadar da özlediğim çok kişi... Kayıplarla başladım ben bu hayata, ödüller beklerken azalarak ilerledim. Onu çok istedim, allahım biliyor...öyle çok sevdim, öyle çok istedim ki... Ve sonrasinda canimin yarisi... Kalbimde kayıpların hatıralarından sevgiye yer kalmadı. Şimdi korkuyorum. Şimdi çok korkuyorum. Gececek gibi değil bu gitmeler. Şimdi daha çok korkuyorum daha çok kayıp vermekten. Canımdan giden parcalardan kalan küllerden içim zifiri karanlık. Ve sen varsın bir elmas tanesi gibi yolun sonunda. Karanlıklarım engel yolumda, gelemiyorum sana. Ve şimdi çok korkuyorum seni de kaybetmekten. Ama elim kolum bağlı, yapamıyorum. Uzak ol, böylesi daha iyi. Kırılmaktansa hiç yaşamamak daha iyi.

Love thyself !

Love yourself because no one else will love you better! 

A Healthy Relationship

Perşembe, Mart 12, 2015

*I must be able to communicate fully as trust then follows since there is nothing that you are holding in or hiding. Everyone has insecurities. My partner should not judge me for that. My partner should make me feel comfortable about sharing those insecurities. That open communication enables us to talk openly and that’s how a person can move past those insecurities.

*I appreciate someone who is honest with how they feel. If I like someone, I’m not going to stop liking him because they are showing that they are into me. Of course, they need to have their own lives and I cannot be the centre of their universe. I don’t like it when men are aloof.

*You have to be aware of what makes your partner feel loved and appreciated. If you ignore that and get lazy then it goes downhill. The honeymoon phase doesn’t last forever. You have to make an effort to keep that spark going in different ways.

*Be confident in you. Know that you are a catch. Don’t let guys manipulate you, try to change you or break you down. Don’t lose sight of your self worth for anyone. Do things for yourself. Love yourself. Be you. Love your life first and foremost. The people who are meant to fall into that will come.


Perşembe, Mart 05, 2015

"Kimseye sana ihanet etmesine izin verecek kadar çok güvenme!"

From the beginning

Salı, Mart 03, 2015

“I have a million things to talk to you about. A million things we have to talk about. All I want in this world is you. I want to see you and talk. I want the two of us to begin everything from the beginning.” — Haruki Murakami, Norwegian Wood

o şehir

bir insanı sevmiyorsam eğer... anladın sen o şehri.
hep o lanet şehirdekiler yüzünden hayat ve istanbul bu kadar boktan oldu.